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[slim]

evening all im ross,live out on the east coast and am the proud new owner of an r-reg passat estate,1.8 20v se which i am loving to bits! i need some advice,firstly can someone tell me which wires are which on the stereo plugs,i need to know which is the ignition live,eart and permanent live feed so i can sort my stereo out,its not holding and of my settings. and secondly where is the best place to buy coilies from? im not planning on going mad with my estate,i just need my stereo in and running and maybe some rims,but coilies are a priority as the car sits a little high! hope u can help and i look forward to speaking with u all!